When you’re a lesbian and single again…where do you begin?
Saturday, August 16th, 2008I was speaking with a new client this morning who recently ended an 8 year relationship with another woman. She feels she is ‘healing’ and says she wants me to help her overcome the ’serial monogamy’, u-haul game and find a lifelong partner the next time around.
What a great time, btw, for someone to enlist support! I remember back to my therapy training days when we learned that crises may seem overwhelming but they are also a time when we are more open to change. That’s right – the Chinese were right – crisis =’s opportunity! And making some internal changes (as well as some changes in her actions) will be required of this client if she expects to ever stop ‘leasing’ U-Hauls!!! (more…)
Barb Elgin, MSW, LCSW, Certified Singles Coach, is a lesbian dating and relationship expert and matchmaker.
