Secrets to deeply satisfying, lasting lesbian love: BE a great partner
Tuesday, March 24th, 2009
As I talk with lesbian women from all over the world, we find it so much fun identifying together who they are and what they want. The coaching exercises we do together to find out these juicy tidbits are often very liberating, especially for lesbians, because so many of us have held back so much of who we are from ‘the light of day’ for so long.
Some of my current and former clients only recently ‘came out of the closet’. Some have even been married to a man for some length of time and are choosing to live a more authentic, ‘this is who I really am’ lesbian life for the first time. And many others have identified, even rather openly, as lesbian for years but they…
- haven’t experience a deeply satisfying and lasting relationship with another woman
- they haven’t felt comfortable asking for what they want
- or they haven’t been aware of what they want romantically, for various reasons, most likely due to the socialization (or lack thereof) women and lesbian women receive when it comes to love, dating and relationships.




Barb Elgin, MSW, LCSW, Certified Singles Coach, is a lesbian dating and relationship expert and matchmaker.

