As I’ve coached dozens and dozens of lesbian women over the years, it has occurred to me that for many (I’d like to say ‘some’ but then, maybe I’d be deluding myself!), the process of reaching out and getting some good ol’ dating or relationship coaching (even while knowing it could make a dramatically positive difference in one’s life), is – as one of my mentors would say – a daunting, scary or, even radical, idea…

I hope in this post to explain to you why it is worth considering the perhaps ‘radical’ idea of ‘trying some love coaching’…

Let me begin with those who are at least somewhat ‘warmed up’ to the idea.  Perhaps you are someone who has gotten over the initial hump – you’ve gotten results in the past from getting some coaching or expert help in some life area – and you’ve taken a peek at some of what we’ve been talking about here on Coach Sappho’s blog and on Coach Sappho’s website.

Or, perhaps you’ve even furthered your curiosity by ‘sampling’ some of what I suggest such as…

• Sticking a toe in the water and signing up for Coach Sappho’s ‘Luscious Love’ Quiz, which is, by the way, free, easy to sign up for and quick to complete. I’m sure if you have signed up and, even better, taken the quiz, you’ve found out the water isn’t too cold AND you’ve gained something from the experience.  Less painful even, than having your temperature taken (by mouth, of course!).  
• Wading into the pool by joining a free resource such as Lez Be Together, our community for lesbian couples and individuals who desire deeply satisfying, lasting relationships.  Or, signing up for free updates from Coach Sappho’s Blog.
• Diving in by hiring me as your coach or, if you are single, joining our premiere social club

If this is you, congratulations.  You are already experiencing the results of investing in you and your happiness.  My advice to you is to: take the next step!  However you define that…if you want help identifying your ‘next step’ just contact me to discuss.

Or, if this is not you, no problem, keep reading.  You’ve not yet warmed up to the idea of a love coach helping you bring even more love into your life, and you’re still skeptical.  You continue to ask ‘why should I give a damn’?

I could quote you studies that show individuals in happy relationships are healthier, wealthier, etc.  And other studies showing that happy singles are healthier than unhappy ones.  I could also quote studies that challenge many of the myths about love relationships you need to get clear on to prevent relationship trouble, breakups, etc.

Unless you’ve ‘given up’ on love, and, in particular, being part of a deeply satisfying, LASTING relationship (and if you have, you really need to consider getting to know me better!), I know you have got to be saying to yourself:  how can I get more of that???

For those of you who hesitate to join us in any way just yet, consider the following analogy: (more…)

WHETHER YOU ARE…

• single and don’t want to be
• single and fine with it, and at a place in your life where you’re ready to meet a life partner, BUT you aren’t willing to ‘settle’
• tired of the dating scene or results with dating web sites
• unsure where to look for compatible men or women to date
• wondering if THIS relationship ‘is the one’
• coupled and unhappy or pretty happy, but understand that great relationships don’t ‘just happen’

COACH SAPPHO®‘S ‘FAMILY’ IS FOR YOU! 

Coach Sappho®‘s ‘Family’ is a fun, educational relationship community for marriage and commitment-minded gay, lesbian and gay-friendly singles and couples who desire and value deeply satisfying relationships.  Opportunities for you to find greater happiness and success wherever you are on love’s journey exist here as you gain new understandings and skills and connect with like-minded singles and couples in a gay-affirmative environment.  Most events are conveniently available to you by telephone. 

If you are hesitant to give telephone coaching a try, I have one question to ask you:  if you knew getting on a phone call a couple times a month would improve your life or relationship, would you be willing to do so?  If you answered ‘yes’ then I’d like to invite you to one of our complimentary, introductory teleseminars.  Information on signing up is below.  Just click on the link below that best defines your current relationship status and get on the path to a more satisfying life today:

 
  single?  dating or want to date?

  new couple?  engaged or considering it?  moving in
  together?  planning a wedding or civil union? 

  married?  domestic partnered?  in a committed
  relationship?

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In today’s world, all of us want the same thing, whether we are single, dating, or married, young or old, gay, lesbian or straight…

- to love and be loved -

We may disagree about almost everything else, but one experience that unites the great majority of us is our desire for a lasting, fulfilling life relationship.  However, as funny as it sounds, the reality is that most of us have a better plan for buying and maintaining a car than choosing and cherishing our life partner!  Coach Sappho is an expert in the area of couples coaching, gay dating, online dating help and tips, and lesbian relationships in individual and group settings.

When we consider the high divorce and relationship breakup rates in our society, maybe we are, no pun intended, ‘getting what we paid for’!  Many of us have been through difficult relationship obstacles, divorce and/or painful breakups and thus, approach dating and relationships with some degree of fear and distrust, which only adds to the challenges of creating the ultimate relationship we desire. 

Isn’t it time for a change?  Did you know that the secrets to creating the life and relationship YOU desire are available!?!  And that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own?  That’s why I created Coach Sappho®, an exciting learning community for singles and couples who are ready to discover and experience the secrets to ‘finding the love of their life and a life that they love’. 

SINGLES: Don’t let your soulmate pass you by – begin creating the relationship you truly want - by clicking here to sign up for our ‘Relationship Quiz’ right now!  Take our exclusive love quiz and find out if you are ready for a relationship.

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