Happy Turkey Day to ya! As I was finishing up some work last evening (or dare I say earlier this morning!), I came across a great article by a group of gay activists (including clergy), suggesting ways of talking to your loved about same sex marriage this holiday season. The article concerns Proposition 8 in California, but could just as well apply to those of us in Florida who are under Amendment 2, Arizona. Nationally, don’t forget we are still discriminated against legally by DOMA – the Defense of Marriage Act and there is the threat (perhaps small but still there) of someone re-starting the campaign – again – federally, to add a Constitutional Amendment against same sex marriage.
Now, each one of us has different situation. Some of us are no where near ready to talk so openly with our loved ones. Perhaps we haven’t cultivated this level of closeness (yet!) with loved ones.
But, perhaps there is someone in your life – someone who is ‘on the fence’ or ‘apathetic’ about the same sex issue. Perhaps this is someone you can share these ‘talking points’ with today or this coming holiday season. Perhaps it’s even another GLBT person who doesn’t understand the implications like you do.
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